These are posts about, or which mention significantly, one or more women about whom I’ve written about two or more times, but fewer than 25 times…. I want to be clear that how often I write about a woman is a very poor indicator of anything other than how often I write about a woman. Hope, for example, has been a fun part of my life – intermittently to be sure – for years. And she’s in this category. P, too, burned VERY bright but not for that long. And on, and on, and on. So go easy with whatever conclusions you might draw here….
A-J
- Fidelity, honesty, commitment
- Edging and coming with and for Julie
- Feeling sexual, feeling asexual, self-destruction and enlivening
- Before there was “Secretary”
- Diamond (2)
- Charlotte and Shelby, in my absence
- Charlotte and me – part 4
- Charlotte’s bingo card
- Heinz Ketchup
- Fear and uncertainty in dating
- Dear Hope
- Dear Julie
- Been meaning to write
- Dear Leanne
- Dear Stephanie
- Back to the bar – it’s not the same
- Bad dates (2)
- Faking it
- Eating well
- Celeste, coming slowly into focus
- Disappointment
- Adnan gets an appeal!
- Farewell to the Amazon
- Hera has work to do
- Hellian
- Earlier in the evening…
- Dispatches from Lexy
- Fantasies about my fantasy
- Hitting bottom
- Getting to know Luna’s pussy
- Getting to know you
- Dispassionate
- Distant buddy trust-building, in real time
- Harmless?
- First impressions, again
- Happy father’s day
- Easy come, easy go?
- Dat ass
- Can I make it up to you eventually – outtake
- Have a drink with me?
- Have a drink with me? (Another view)
- Have we met? (I guess we must have)
- Haunting
- Devouring Charlotte (Part 5)
- Be my slut
- Jo
- Isabella
- Anger
- Athena
- Breathing, fighting, coming
- Breather (hourly hotel? room by the hour?)
- Dreaming about catsuits
- Athena hates not getting what she wants
- Athena makes my cock hard
- Claire stretches with me
- Athena (redux)
- Angela’s second orgasm
- Athena’s lingerie
- Angela’s orgasm
- Ambivalence
- Ambivalence
- Elegy for P (first in a series)
- Alcohol and disinhibition
- Episodes 7 and 8 – the best part (and the part I write least well about)
- Episode 9: postscript (version 2 – outtakes)
- Emily doesn’t join
- Emily’s jealous
- Emily’s anxiety
- Alexandra in person
- And a fourth crush
- And the next time…
- And on. And on. (or, Episode 6)
- Hope
- Allie
- Anticipating Tamora
- Anticipating Tamora
- Anticipation, frustration
- Anticipation, violence, consummation
- Allie keeps them coming
- Blocked
- Dominance, at a distance
- Coming right up…
- Hope delivers (part 1)
- Hope delivers (part 2)
- Ella and Scarlett
- Blog perks #1
- Hope springs eternal
- Hope looms
- Hope sucked my cock
- Hope’s orgasms – and her thighs
- Collecting on ambivalence; sharing intimacy
- Another L
- Another set of instructions for a slut
- Another orgasm
- Another L asks me questions
- Inspiration
- Compartmentalization
- Hookers, escorts, and sugar babies
- Implosion and explosion
- Controlling Angela
- Instructions
- Instructions
- Instructions for a morning commute
- Instructions for the doe-eyed beauty
- Folly
- Booty call at the bar?
- Folly, part 2
- Folly, part 3
- Folly, part 4 (Biter)
- Folly, part 5
- From fantasy to reality
- For your protection
- Don’t be gentle with me
- Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the Rockette)
- Anya
- Boundaries, edges (#146)
- Drunken thoughts
- Elust 92
- Jo ACTUALLY comes for me
- Jo comes for me
- An application: she wants my tongue
- Is Julie wet?
- In silence
- It’s complicated with Iris
- Eva
- Jude gives me what I want
- Jude’s fingers are wet (or at least, they were supposed to be)
- Fucking Hope (part 1)
- Fucking Hope (part 2)
- Fucking, being fucked
- Julie with…
- Julie’s version
- Bursting at the seams
- Cum for me
- Buzzkill
- I believe in ghosts
- A date for another day
- A first encounter
- A bit more on the Secretary
- A few random thoughts on anger
- I don’t know how I missed it, them (a paean)
- C cums again
- A night at Le Trapeze (part 1)
- A night at Le Trapeze (part 2)
- A night at Le Trapeze (part 3)
- I made a second bingo card….
- A simple conversation, a recent memory
- A new Hope
- A new orgasm – LONG time coming
- A new plaything
- A torrid evening with Hope
- A view from below
- I want
- I want to make your pussy wet
- I want so much more
- I’ve decided to stop writing sex
- A’s fantasy
- I’m torn
K-T
- Sadie
- Rejection
- Paean
- Sheila
- Nights with Athena (part 1)
- Paean – but a little more intimate
- Leash
- Miami
- Secretary
- Seeking inspiration
- Packing for a threesome
- Shelby owes me three hours
- Leanne
- Learning what I want (a fragment)
- Thank you, Luna
- Meet A
- Meet Alexandra
- Meet Julie
- Mick said it best…
- Meet Kady
- Meet the Historian
- Meet the Amazon
- Meet Sarah
- Meet Melanie
- Meet Rye
- Lies, damn lies, and polyamory
- Kady asks me some questions
- She demands that I name her
- She came… and then we fucked (Oral at a sex party, Part 2)
- The first time
- The good teacher
- The good teacher describes me
- The good teacher kneels – and comes for me
- She sits at the bar
- She lives 1,000 miles away
- The road back to me
- The Rockette dances again
- The moth and the flame, continued
- The women of Snapchat: Emily
- She’s so soft
- Ratchet
- Narcissistic asshat (II)
- Narcissistic asshat (I)
- Threesome bingo
- Tinder strategies, part 1 – swiping
- Tinder strategies, part 2 – contact after matching
- Sarah comes for me (six times, quickly)
- Three Crushes
- Sarah meets me
- Sarah’s bingo card
- Remembering Anya
- Remembering exes
- Remembering Luna
- Marina is hot
- Making a meal of Hope
- Rashomon
- Random and not-so-random thoughts while working out with Julie
- Random thoughts [drafts from the archive]
- Names and dynamics
- Tales of rejection
- Self-destruction
- Obstacles, anticipation, deprivation: Julie
- Sipping Ivy
- Listen to Rose coming
- Metrazur, RIP
- Tamora
- Tamora returns?
- Tamora’s desire
- Tamora’s cunt
- Tamora’s mouth
- Ransom
- Melrose’s place
- Lessons from the Buddha
- Nastya comes for me
- Nastya comes more
- Nastya is nasty
- Masturbation in a coffee shop
- Lilly has a G-spot orgasm
- Lilly cums for us
- Last hurrah?
- Part 1 – Spectacles, Testicles, Wallet, and Watch: in Which I’m Fingered by a Self-Proclaimed ‘Slut’ at a Bar
- Part 2
- Part 3
- Thoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
- Reluctant submission
- Perversion, objectification, and Julie’s ass
- Many, many orgasms
- Sam (1)
- Sam (2)
- Let’s go
- Pam’s pussy
- Leyla’s dreams
- Lexy teaches me about a new kind of multiple orgasm
- Pay attention to me
- May is masturbation month
- Sex tips for straight women from a gay man
- Sex with a blind woman
- Sex. Anticipation. Threesomes.
- Le Trapeze, once more
- Special
- Logistics
- Orgasms a go-go
- Sketchy
- Still more work for Hera
- Stimulation from afar
- Presumptuous
- Oral fixation
- Oral at a sex party
- Star-fucking
- Private links for Sarah and Charlotte
- Playthings (meet Jude)
- One ending that’s not (or maybe is sort of) to be….
- One possibility
- Rose
- Spreadsheeting orgasms
- Porcelain doll
- Porcelain doll in the window
- Porcelain doll update
- Something familiar, part 1
- Something familiar, part 2
- Sometimes
- Morality
- Losing Hope
- More disappearances
- Rose comes for me
- Some context on Stephanie
- More thoughts about rejection, and the porcelain doll
- Some thoughts about the week ahead
- Some more from A
- More on Luna
- Loma muffin papaya (remembering Willow)
- More work for Hera
- Monogamish sex
- Morning commute
- Morning wood
- Looks can be deceiving
- Not a safe date
- On being permitted to record
- On being stood up
- On distance, virtual relationships, and trust (I)
- On quickies
- So much to write, so little time
- Ok, now I’m fucked
- Ruination
- Tying Shelby up
- Svetlana
- Svetlana, part two
- Questions, and instructions, for Diana
- Subtle. Tart.
- Swimsuit shoots for Shelby
- Twenty-one
- Over-determined
- Luna
- Luna
- Punitive photoshoot
- Luna(tic)
- Pussy instruction
- Our date (Rashomon, by Nastya)
- Two requests
- My agreement with Luna
- My disobedient Emma
- My fragile male ego
- My assignment
- My boundaries make writing hard
- My Sasha Grey – lips
- My orgasm
- My quest for rejection, my discomfort with acceptance
U-Z
- Vicissitudes
- Waiting for Lida
- White fuzzy pajama set
- What it feels like when a woman comes with me inside her, after I have used her
- What do you like so much about having your cock sucked? Chapter 1
- What do you like so much about having your cock sucked? Chapter 2
- What makes you feel empowered?
- What’s one thing you consider yourself good at that you could teach me?
- What’s one thing you’ve wanted to try sexually but have never managed?
- What’s something that people always assume about you just from the way you look?
- Watching Sarah and Charlotte….
- Wisdom
- Visions of Lida
- Wisdom vs. Folly
- Wanted: secretary
- Willow and her friend
- Well….
- Ways I want (need) to see Julie
- We were picked up by Netflix (or, the threesome begins….)
- Update on E
- Uncertainty, fear, arousal – a fragment from a past date
- Writing about sex from a distance
- Writing can be hard
- Writing prompts
- Using Rose
- Upcoming fun
- Upping my stretching game
- Words from Hope
- Women I’ve never met: Allie
- Women I’ve never met: Lauren
- Working my way through Julie’s list
- Zoom agenda
- Your upcoming date
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