November 2014

A woman I haven’t met yet sends me the sounds of her coming. Four times in 36 hours. There were more, but I can’t share those.

She reminded me of a bird — tiny, fragile, shivering when I placed my hand on her throat.

A gazillion women, nothing but oral, all night long. I’m pretty sure I want to make it happen. What are the chances?

Consent, legalized.

It’s challenging to establish trust and safety in online relationships. Especially, if you’re sending me pictures and movies. Here’s my code of conduct, how I propose to keep you safe.

How can you be confident about avoiding the possibility of avoiding revenge porn when sending me porn? I make some promises….

I want my desire for you to feel like a warm hand resting on the small of your back — persistent, unmistakable, but never heavy.

She showed me everything, promised me more, and then vanished — not even a goodbye, just the silent void of a disappeared Tinder thread.

A man at the bottom of a stairway, looking up. I saw myself in him.