Marriage – My Dissolute Life

Don’t think twice – it’s alright

I’m a seriously lucky guy.

Why does marital status matter for casual sex? I don’t know, but for some, it DOES. I was so hopeful about this Brazilian beauty….

Does marriage require deception? I like to imagine it doesn’t for me.

How T and I spent a morning, including cats, a magic wand, some sucking and fucking, and just a little humor.

Somehow, when I see a wedding or engagement ring on an attractive woman, I make a lot of assumptions about her.

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