Missing Sofia
For reasons, we’ve been a bit less in touch lately. But the other day, she sent me a scorching video,[…]
Read moreMonth: July 2015
Question – meditation
“When you start to drift into a situation where you might make bad choices, you stop and meditate? I understand[…]
Read moreLe Trapeze, 2015
I first wrote about New York’s oldest sex club over three years ago, and I’ve returned maybe a dozen times,[…]
Read moreA quick thought on Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison exists because of people’s problematic relationship to monogamy.
Read moreChance street conversations
An older man, late sixties, pushing a grocery cart filled with detritus, wearing thick glasses, missing a few teeth, shoddily[…]
Read more“Nude” bras
Should be banished. That is all.
Read moreAshley Madison hack
So this just happened. Ashley Madison’s servers have been hacked, and some self-appointed moral vigilantes stand poised to embarrass thousands[…]
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“Which do you prefer: restraints or blindfolds?” Um, both? Each is immeasurably better with the other. Restraints, though, are more[…]
Read moreWatching you
Today, I want to watch you. I want you to stand before me. I want to see you turn around,[…]
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