L - My Dissolute Life

Fidelity, honesty, commitment

Fidelity, honesty, and commitment among the unfaithful.

A glimpse, maybe, into how, and why, I do things that produce nothing but suffering.

I want to be the pussy whisperer.

There’s a piece in the Times magazine by Elizabeth Gilbert, she of Eat, Pray, Love. The title of the piece[…]

I’m imagining my core fantasy. First, what will you all wear? A sea of women…. Allie? Eva? The Historian? Isabel?[…]

There are devotees of The Ethical Slut who are militantly opposed to dishonesty anywhere in or among relationships among the[…]

But not with me. L, you may recall, was the impetus behind this blog. When I first started writing it,[…]

Over the last couple of years, I’ve had two connections – with L and with V – that have been[…]

I’m drawn to strong women who grant me submission, not to women whose submission I can take from them.

If you’ve spent a lot of time in therapy (or maybe just if you pay attention to yourself a lot),[…]