Happy New Year!
Last year I posted seven resolutions: 7. To engage in some “high-concept” swinging.6. To throw myself into more multi-partner swinging.5.[…]
Read moreMonth: December 2012
Confidence
A funny note about myself. For the vast majority of my life, rightly or wrongly, I believed that – I[…]
Read moreAnd THIS is (really) the last word on safer sex
Courtesy of L:
Read moreOn (my) ego, or, warm nuts
I’m just a guy, and, as I’ve written before, we men have fragile egos. Without going too deep into my[…]
Read moreI’m your man
When I was a teenager, I remember hearing “Suzanne,” by Leonard Cohen, for the first time. I was haunted –[…]
Read moreA final note on monogamy
Apparently, I underestimated how people would react if I questioned their monogamy. I won’t make that mistake again.
Read moreRisk-adjusted returns
I think that if we compare the risks associated with sex to the rewards it brings us, we’ll find that we do a really poor job of decision-making.
Read moreThe risks of “monogamy”
In which I foolhardily attack other people’s monogamy. And their “monogamy.” By wondering just how many people who think themselves monogamous really are.
Read moreHi, I’m N, and I’m an addict…
Am I a “sex addict”? Is there such a thing? Is it a meaningful term? One reader delights in calling me a sex addict. What do I have to say about it?
Read moreSafer sex, the last installment
I have a casual attitude toward sexually transmitted infections. And, with one exception, during Bill Clinton’s first term, I’ve never had one.
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