October 2015 - My Dissolute Life

Thinking about strip clubs

Strip clubs could be so much better. Don’t you think?

Hypothesis: the ponytail is a signifier, communicating much about a woman’s relationship to sex. Ponytail variables include length, height, style,[…]

I’m a lucky guy. For the most part, I have what I want, and I want what I have.

What can I tell in a brief glance at someone about her sexuality? Sometimes, nothing. But sometimes, I imagine, a[…]

A brief rant – out of character, I think/hope…. And first, a preamble: I close the toilet seat in my[…]

There are many differences, of course, but here’s one: I used to see attractive women and be overcome with a[…]

Her name is Ella. She is a distant buddy. Not too distant – close enough that it seems reasonable to[…]

It’s been a while since Sofia and I have spent time together. Well, you know, we’ve never actually met. But[…]

Well, not in person. But still.

There’s a difference. A leer is intrusive, objectifying, nearly hostile. The content is, generally, “I like that. I want that.”[…]