Inconsiderateness, trust, distance
Sofia and I have an interesting relationship. She’s far away, we’ve never met. She sends me tons. We tell each[…]
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On women’s age
Question: Does your involvement with other women (real life and cyber) include women in their 40s like you, or are[…]
Read moreSofia – in pictures
A week or two ago, I told you I wanted to show her to you. For the longest time, I[…]
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Distant buddies – an update
Over the last couple of years, I’ve had a few distant buddies. Some have been more intense than others. Some[…]
Read moreSofia’s way – note from a distant buddy
A few readers have asked just how my distant buddy relationships work, what I get out of them, what my[…]
Read moreElegy for P (first in a series)
I’ve never “broken up with” a distant buddy. The nature of these relationships is almost structurally overdetermined not to get[…]
Read moreSelf-destruction
I had no reason to expect our date to go well, or even to happen. Once before, we planned to[…]
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Compartmentalization
I’m REALLY good at compartmentalizing.
Read moreShe spreads her legs…
There’s something about the image of a woman spreading her legs – clothed – for me that is about the[…]
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