Jun 182014
Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the Rockette)

Version 1 I didn’t give the Rockette what I’d led her to expect. We’d never met, or spoken. She was dressed as I’d asked, and prepared to do precisely as I asked. She expected I would use her. Wordlessly. At great length. I had encouraged her to expect this, had told her it was coming. […]

Jun 032014

She’s a professional. She’s in marketing. She’s not in a sophisticated or well paid corner of marketing: in those corners, people are smooth, fashionably dressed, smart, and hot. She’s in a more… quotidian… corner. She’s not marketing financial products, or pharmaceutical products. Maybe she’s selling to dentists’ offices. Or to office administrators. Her smile is […]

May 282014

The other day, I wondered if the women who send me their orgasms are faking them. The comments – always thoughtful – as well as a few back channel communications by e-mail – got me thinking further. “Faking it” is, I suspect, unhelpful as a concept here. The question I meant to ask, and that […]

May 212014
Discovering Tinder

I’ve been discovering Tinder. It’s kind of my dream app. I’ll be curious to see where it leads, but, in 24 hours, here are the highlights, as well as some observations about the app itself. First, the app: I have the sense that it was designed by addiction researchers. It’s nearly impossible to put down, […]

Apr 222014
Dear Belle Knox

I just want to tell you, I think you’re doing a kick-ass job. I’m really impressed by you – yes, sure, by your porn. Which is insanely hot – especially that really long sensual blowjob you gave in “Tip of the Tongue” on Nubile Films – I’m much more partial to watching that kind of […]

Mar 192014
Rape prevention

There’s an app (Lulu – more on them in a moment) designed to help women rate potential boyfriends/dates. And people have found a host of ways to turn the tables on those who harass women on the street (like “Hollaback”). What if there were a web site – “herapedme.com,” say – where people could post […]