Musing
- Why I write sex (part 2, after a fashion)
- Top ten reasons sex bloggers blog sex
- How to successfully write a secret sex blog and not blow up your life or be a total dick – a manual
- Infinity
- Your fantasy
- Jealousy (both sides now)
- Preferences
- Early porn, part 1
- A quick thought on admiring beauty
- Fat chicks
- Sexting, cock shots
- Going down
- Ruts and different pages
- Do you know me?
- Sex work
- Male sexual violence
- Terminology (II)
- Terminology (I)
- Sex addiction revisited
- Rejection
- Program note
- Bad boys
- Speaking the unspeakable
- Addicted to what?
- On desiring, being desired
- Getting and having
- Love and desire
- Public sex
- MILF
- I’m not tall
- Scent, and taste, of a woman
- On unusual kinks
- Hot and cold (part 2)
- My quest for rejection, my discomfort with acceptance
- Writing about sex (take 2)
- Writing about sex
- The clothes make the man
- Shame, apologies, amends
- Don Draper vs. N. Likes
- Ten (more) ways to suck my cock
- Special redux, redux
- Damn
- Ten (more) ways to suck my cock
- Ten (more) ways to suck my cock
- Ten (more) ways to suck my cock
- Ten (more) ways to suck my cock
- Compartmentalization
- Ebbs and flows
- Meditation on my cock
- Ten ways to suck my cock
- Blog sex
- High-concept swinging
- Happy New Year!
- Confidence
- On (my) ego, or, warm nuts
- A final note on monogamy
- The risks of “monogamy”
- Hi, I’m N, and I’m an addict…
- Safer sex, the last installment
- Safer sex (redux)
- Safer sex
- Open relationship mini-quiz
- Men suck?
- She spreads her legs…
- More, on cheating – and judgment
- Judgment
- Rape fantasies
- Polyamory and swinging
- Sex and death
- Petite chicks
- Porn and desire
- Gratitude
- And the beat goes on….
- I’m lazy
- Spanking
- Real Life
- A quick thought on abortion, on election day
- Symmetry
- Questionnaire: how to handle your…
- Forgiveness, part 2 (or 3, depending on how you’re counting)
- My last post
- Forgiveness
- Desperation, neediness, and sure things
- Trauma
- Why not rub one out?
- Some days…
- Strip clubs
- Your breasts
- The pitfalls of paying for it
- Prostitution, commercial sex, paid dating
- 69: Pro or con?
- On haggling
- Paid dating, take 2
- Relative relapses
- The evolution of trust in paid dating
- She likes it rough…
- Sex addiction
- Compulsive massage (Part 1)
- What do you know about cock worship?
- Strip clubs, revisited (preceded by a rant)
- Melancholy moanings
- Quick note on redheads
- Peak erotic experiences: fantasy
- What I’m thinking about when I’m fucking you
- What I’m thinking about while I’m licking your pussy
- Peak Experiences, Peak Fantasies
- The meaning of paying for sex, of true submission
- Can Love Last?
- What I’m thinking while you’re sucking my cock
- Amends
- Envy
- Period sex
- Shame
- James Deen, GQ, and soccer
- Sex on a boat – the prelude
- Labels
- Distant buddy trust-building, in real time
- My orgasm
- On quickies
- Trust and distant buddies (II)
- On distance, virtual relationships, and trust (I)
- Porn: seeking vs. finding
- On strip clubs
- Talking dirty
- The Oxford Comma
- Cock shots
- BDSM
- On being a slut
- Guilt
- Dishonesty
- Open letter to Dan Savage
- Burlesque
- On reading erotica
- Four ways of looking at jealousy (apologies to Wallace Stevens)
- I’m offensive
- On being sexy, ill, and blogging
- Some things I like, on a rainy day
- Further thoughts on creep shots
- On blogging, and my narcissism
- Sugar daddies/sugar babies
- Sex tips for the repressed – Part 2
- Sex tips for the repressed – Part 1
- Eulogy for a fling
- Just because it’s funny
- Love
- The fraternity of confident men
- Ru(m)ination
- Wisdom
- The vagaries of desire
- Ethical non-monogamy
- Noms de…
- Craving
- Ruthlessness
- Questions
- Swinging and male bisexuality
- Downtown
- Face-fucking
- BBW
- Special, redux
- I love gay men
- Lists
- Motivation
- Vox
- Audio posts
- Sasha Grey, equal pay, redux
- Predation
- Troublemaker
- Steak and BJ Day
- I love Sasha Grey
- Creep shots
- Mouth moistness and Twitter
- Viagra
- Boundaries
- Jealousy
- What works, what doesn’t?
- CAUTION
- Getting ready to move….
- Not sure what this means…
- A few thoughts on porn
- Fucking Google
- I like breasts
- Pubic hair, redux
- Trimming the hedges and man-scaping
- Tingling and pulsing
- Failure to launch
- Cheating
- Tenderness
- Hunger and compulsion
- Monogamish
- Jealousy
- Money and attention
- Sympathetic
- To submit, or not to submit–that is the question
- Unhappy ending?
- Bratty subs
- Harassment
- Apologies to commenters
- In charge
- Dominatrix
- Memes
- A note on commenting
- Exhibitionism and fabulism
- The gym
- Sympathy for the Devil (2)
- Fleshbot
- Money for nothing and the chicks for free?
- My origin myth
- Traffic
- Search
- The economy of sex
- Hotness abounds
- Boundaries
- Sympathy for the devil
- What doesn’t turn me on
- What turns me on
- Shame, or, Sonnet 129
- Monogamy and its discontents
- My Sally Field moment
- Writing about sex from a distance
- Fucking, being fucked
- Hourly hotels
- Thanks for letting me fuck your wife
- Privacy, secrecy
- Symmetry
- Custody of the eyes
- My sex addiction, 2
- Cute plumber
- My sex addiction
- Be my “lover” and “play” with me
- Exhibitionism
- Jealousy and envy
- My greatest fantasy
- Christmas is fun(ny)
- Last-minute gifts
- Privacy revisited
- Magic
- Catherine Millet and jealousy
