Can you offer any useful expectations for meeting you? Especially wrt to use of time completely for sex, or not?
I like mystery, but I also like being mentally and emotionally prepared. And in this case, it will help me be most fully present and engaged to be a tiny bit more clear on this.
I don’t have a requirement/need either way (and it may evolve in the moment — which may be part of the answer) but I’m trying to set my gauges (a weird metaphor, but all I got right now).
Whatever the deal there, I am fucking excited about having fun with your having fun with me. Doing precisely what you ask, of course.
I’m thinking of some possibilities.
1) We start exactly as we did [our first date]. You walk through the market, to the hotel. I join you at, say, the crosswalk leading to the hotel. We check in together. Once in the room, you strip naked (I strip you naked/I tear off every item of your clothes), you kneel, and ask me three questions of your choice before I begin putting you to use.
2) Same as 1, minus the questions. You are not to speak unless in direct response to a question from me.
3) We meet for a drink in a midday bar at 10:30 or 11. We have a drink or two, before finding our way to the hotel.
4) You meet me on a street corner of my choosing. We take a short – ten-minute – cab ride to the hotel, during which we chat, and you play with your pussy for my viewing pleasure. Once at the hotel, well, then it’s (you’re) on me.
You may rule any of these out, if you wish. I may add to this list. I reserve the right to choose, subject to your veto.
I like the way you think!
Thank you. So far I would enjoy / be comfortable with any of these, Very Much. I know it’s your choice, but I’m going to percolate on which is my favorite, and also wait to see if you have any other brainstorms. Yum.
I’m going to play with my pussy right now — while whispering idle thoughts about yesterday — to practice multi tasking in the event you choose #4. I’m sorry I can’t record it for you; I will, another time, if you would like .…
5) We meet in a coffee shop. Or, rather, we each go to the same coffee shop. We don’t sit together. I give you some instructions by text/e-mail. You follow them for me. We talk on the phone, staring directly at each other, but not next to one another. You ask whatever burning questions you have. Maybe I give you some more instructions. When I can’t bear to wait any longer (which, presumably, will not be long), we adjourn and walk a short distance, together, to a hotel. Where I put you to good and proper use.
6) We make out [in a public place] before adjourning to our hotel.
7) You check into hotel. You strip naked. You stand, ass to the door, waiting. At some point (presumably), I arrive.
8) I check into hotel. When I’m ready, I tell you to proceed to room. When you get there, you find whatever I’ve decided to greet you with.
9) We meet at a strip club. We procure the hottest woman there to dance for us for an hour, getting me hard, getting you wet. Maybe I go down on you while she dances in your face. Then, we go to a hotel.
10) I instruct you as to what to bring. We meet [in a public place]. I take several dozen provocative pictures of you in public. Then, we head to the hotel.
So many good choices you have 😉
11) We set tasks for me to complete on the train/cab. We “meet” [in a public place] and you provide phone instructions as to how you would like me to pose for pics; we slowly come into contact as the shoot progresses and make out there before adjourning to the hotel where I wait for your entry in a pose (&clothes) of your choosing.
Do you have thoughts? Preferences? Suggestions?