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On narcissism
Read moreA loyal reader’s compliment sends me down a predictable rabbit hole: am I endlessly self-reflective, or just endlessly self-absorbed?
Enthusiastic new readers
Read moreNothing like watching my stats climb while I’m busy doing anything but writing.
Enjoying myself
Read moreSex is my breath: endlessly complex, always with me, and not really about enjoyment.
Far from home
Read moreFive days left on vacation, no charger, spotty internet, and I don’t really mind.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #5 – moaning
Read moreThe best moans are the ones you’re trying to suppress.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – blowjobs
Read morePorn gets blowjobs wrong, and I have opinions about how.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read moreFucking isn’t the point. The sentence is more interesting than the period at the end of it.
Paean
Read moreA short, curvy woman on the subway, and everything I noticed.