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Tough questions
Read moreQuestions my son will ask me one day, and how I’ll answer them.
E[lust] #50
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all in one place.
A great ass in leggings
Read moreWhat I think when I see a great ass in leggings is not what you might expect. It’s conceptual, not explicit — and that distinction may explain more about me than I’d like.
More on sex scarcity
Read moreSofia offers a woman’s perspective on sex scarcity, and I riff on her fantasy of a world where you can just walk up to someone and negotiate preferences before fucking.
Love is that which we know
Read moreRyan and Toby hate each other, but love is never really about how things look from the outside.
Sex scarcity
Read moreA man’s inarticulate defense of rape led me to a more honest reckoning with the frustration of sex scarcity — one that justifies nothing, but that nearly every straight man has felt.
Skirts: a hypothesis
Read moreThe hemline as mind-reader: what that inch or two above the knee tells me about how she saw herself when she got dressed.
Sketchy
Read moreShe was trying to be less sketchy. I was trying to be less sketchy. We met on SeekingArrangement.