N. Likes, Author at My Dissolute Life

Gratitude and resolutions

Sometimes I’m hot. Sometimes I’m not.

In which I propose an alternate conceptualization of the wildly popular notion of “attachment styles.”

I am difficult to please. Doing as I ask is simply not enough.

Sadomasochism is a funny thing. Here’s how I mean it: when two people enter into a pact that produces mutual suffering.

It’s a tough time to write a sex blog.

Rollercoasters and relationships.

An unbidden selfie….

Sometimes I struggle to sleep….

I can breathe.

The addictive elixir of submission.