N. Likes, Author at My Dissolute Life

Rape fantasies

I have a friend. Like many women – like most women I know, horrifyingly – she’s been raped. Like even[…]

to acknowledge that my last post was my 500th post since I started this blog. That’s a lot of posts.

Dan Savage wrote a column last week arguing, forcefully, that polyamory isn’t a sexual orientation. This seems to me akin to[…]

I wrote the other day about how I sometimes use porn (and, incidentally, used commercial sex) not when I’m feeling[…]

I love ’em tiny. Some while back, I wrote about my insane, unquenchable, out-of-the-blue hunger for a redhead. Any redhead.[…]

Porn’s funny. Conventional wisdom holds that we use porn when we’re horny. But this isn’t quite right, I think. I[…]

It’s Thanksgiving, here in the US, and I’m genuinely thankful for much: 1. Above all, family: nuclear AND extended. We[…]

Remember Mara? The Israeli chick who came with Jen and me to Le Trapeze? Well, she and I had a[…]

I sat in Starbucks putting the final touches on a gift for T. A woman ran in and in a[…]