I enviously have been, um, appreciating the photos of breasts my fellow dissolute, Hyacinth’s readers have been sending her. And I confess, my first reaction was one of envy: I want all those women to send me their breasts.
But then I realized, slut though I may be, I don’t really crave disembodied body parts of women I don’t know. That does little for me.
This morning, it dawned on me: What I crave, what I value, is connection, a tiny bit of knowing. I don’t want to see your breasts, I want to know a little bit about you, about what draws you to this blog, about what gets you wet, what turns you on, what pisses you off, what makes you think. And….
And I crave three other things.
Compliance. You know that. A visual taste – just a hint. Are you short or tall? Slim or round? Blonde, brunette, redhead, bald?
And sound. Sound is in some ways the most exciting to me, because it’s the most intimate. I want to hear you. Sure, I want to hear you cum, but I also want to hear you talk. I want to hear your voice, your words.
I agree that disembodied parts of strangers aren’t engaging. I love them from those I know, though. A definite perk of hosting this meme is that I know whose breasts are whose if they’re listed as anonymous. They’re long time readers or lurkers. There’s something about that that thrills me.
Did you know I get almost no pics sent to me otherwise? Other than TN, of course. It’s kind of ironic.
Have you ever seen “Girl on the Net”‘s e-mail address? I love it. (It’s “sendmeacockpic at gmail dot com.”)
Yeah, I never get pics sent to me either. 🙁
Haha!! No! OMG, that’s brilliant! I once got 3 sent to me when I was trying NOT to masturbate for a week. That was pretty awesome.
And you – you totally missed the point of this post. You were supposed to send me audio, not written words.
Yes!! I think about the same things…well, except the compliance. Sort of. Grin It really is about that connection. It sounds so cliche but the way someone thinks or feels and our interaction can really change the way I view or think about them. Would I notice them in a crowd?? Maybe. Do they drive me crazy based on what they are saying or thinking, thus making them absolutely desirable? For sure.
No, no, no. You got it all wrong. You’re supposed to send me an AUDIO file, silly. 😉