Mar 072015

The details don’t matter. This is not a complaint about anyone. It’s an observation about myself. Recently, I had drinks with someone, a woman I’d never met before, but had gotten to know just a tiny bit. It wasn’t a sexual date. We were interested in talking, not fucking. After the date, I learned from […]

Jun 052013

I don’t, generally, think of myself as being “above” gossip. Occasionally I purvey, and/or consume, gossip. More than I’d like. But the other day, I learned a particularly juicy collection of morsels of gossip. And it left me feeling… icky. My first reaction was one of self-satisfaction: “I’m superior, better. Other people trade on this […]