We straight men are supposed to prefer women in heels. “Heels do wonderful things for women’s calves,” we are told, “not to mention their asses.” And to be sure, they do. But heels also conjure up lots of associations for me that are more ambiguous than just “Yummy! Curves!” When I see a woman teetering […]
“Female copulatory vocalization.” You know, chicks making noise during sex. When I paid for massages, some of the (less favored, by me) women I saw would, while standing adjacent to me, my cock in their hand, inexplicably start moaning as I approached orgasm. Were they turned on? It’s hard to imagine – the women who […]
I googled “Best oral sex video ever,” and this is what I found. This is not how I like my cock sucked. I’ve written lots about how I like it sucked, about how I like to be teased, licked, kissed, stroked, pressed, and yes, sucked. But I don’t particularly crave the up-and-down jackhammer sucking that […]
“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For many, for most, it is. For me, it’s not.
I’m not a big fan of nudity. Don’t get me wrong: I think a naked body (male or female) is a thing of beauty, and I like to look at them. But a nude body rarely excites me. No. What excites me is mystery, revelation, obscurity, discovery, confiding, intimacy. There are, I think, two aspects […]
This is the first in a series of posts about ways that I’m a little different from what I understand to be the sexual “norm” (to the extent there is one). I like breasts. A lot. I like them big and small, almost equally. I hate fake breasts. Small to medium is ideal for me, […]