Every so often I read this guy’s blog. Not sure why. It’s not particularly well written, and often features LOTS of typos. I think he’s gay – all the sex he writes about is with men.
Anyway, some time ago, he wrote this:
Attempting to convince someone to want you, when it’s plain they won’t, is one of the biggest wastes ever of your time. Just don’t do it.
True, that. Would that I could learn that lesson once and for all.
It’s a difficult lesson. I’ve written on it and struggled with it, too.