“Which do you prefer: restraints or blindfolds?”
Um, both? Each is immeasurably better with the other. Restraints, though, are more work to implement, unless they’re the under-the-bed kind, and you’re in my bed. Which you’re not, and won’t be, unless you’re one person in particular.
Workarounds – like makeshift or portable cuffs – are fun, but they’re entirely different from full-on restraints, which, done right, immobilize you perfectly. And with the right woman? There’s no beating them.
I love fighting a writhing woman with no weapon other than my tongue.
Blindfolds are, definitionally, more of a psychic than a physical tool. They change one’s mental experience dramatically, with only a minimum of physical impact.
Together? Yum. (And add earphones with loud music for full-on sensory deprivation.)
“What’s on your sexual bucket list?”
People. Most, but not all, of whom I’ve had sex with before.