Ghosts
I hate being ghosted. It shakes my sense of connection, judgment, and even cosmology.
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Free speech
I’m scared
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The Cost of Taking Care
Despite transforming my relationship to food and fitness over decades, maintaining my body now feels like an exhausting and resented obsession.
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Charlie Kirk, and things I believe
Shit’s getting real here, folks.
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The focus should be on why Trump sent a note to Epstein and the meaning of ‘enigmas’ in it, rather than its authenticity.
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Saya’s Power and Our Shared Fantasies
Saya enjoys wielding her power over straight men, and we explored a fantasy in which two men physically fight for her affection.
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The Evolution of My Fantasies
I’ve entereda new developmental phase: fantasizing about scenarios that can’t, shouldn’t, or won’t happen.
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I don’t have as many readers as I once did
Online engagement with me, and with my blog, has diminished to next-to-nothing!
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I don’t write much about politics
I like the image. But Trump is no Hitler. Hitler had beliefs. He’s more like Peron, or Pinochet, or Mussolini.
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I Need Your Cunt
Reflections on the personal and psychological dimensions of oral sex and the sense of exploration and power it brings.
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