Territory
The Social World
565 posts
Topics
Browse
Paean
Read moreKelly green bike shorts, a high braid, and suddenly I’m riding faster than I meant to.
Prelude to a long forgotten post about maxie
Read moreMaxie and I had an arrangement that was to end in a blowjob. Then she ghosted – and I’m less hurt than baffled.
Mania or feeling alive: new relationship energy
Read moreI’m surfing new relationship energy again, and the disappointments are half the thrill.
Ai-powered lingerie browsing site
Read moreJade will wear anything I buy her, and lingerie sites are a nightmare — so I built my own.
Flirting: a night out with judd
Read moreI went out with my old friend Judd — both of us in open marriages — to a lively cocktail bar with the half-joking aim of flirting. We met a group of women at the bar, including one particularly fun blonde, and I reflected on the rarity of having a true wingman and the ongoing question of whether Sydney will call.
Sex work and childhood inauthenticity
Read moreWhen Margot bites her lip for me, I can’t tell what’s real – and I’ve been asking that question since I was a kid.
Dating tina: chemistry, submission, and running away
Read moreTina has a voice like catnip and everything else going for her – but I asked her to wear something green, and she said she was busy.
Bike lane beauty
Read moreTwo years of biking to work instead of riding the subway, and this morning I finally saw an ass worth writing about.
The ridiculousness of ai
Read moreReviewing French Fries, or, the ridiculous power of AI. Or, I’m totally obsessional.
A meditation on aging and mortality
Read moreMeeting women has changed dramatically over the last 15 years — from mass-swiping Tinder to the blog attracting partners organically — and now all avenues have dried up.
Paean
Read moreA PAWG? Not quite. But almost….
Missing v: a bittersweet reflection on lost contact
Read moreI’ve known V since 2011. We aren’t in touch, and I haz a sad.
Losing women
Read moreI struggle to accept the loss of women in my life, a pattern rooted in losing my mother repeatedly.
Two gym rats, blonde and brunette
Read moreTwo cute women, one for whom I long, one for whom I don’t.
Paean
Read moreA surfeit of style
Paean
Read moreA paean that graduates into something like a creep shot.
Paean, or, the limitations – and capabilities – of ai
Read moreAI can nail a face but not a feeling. Guess which one matters more to me.
Preternatural
Read moreEvery fucking element of her is preternatural. And I enlisted every AI I could find to try to show you what I mean.
Portrait of a stranger who looks like my cousin
Read moreWhile sitting at a bar in my father’s neighborhood, I was struck by a beautiful woman who closely resembles a cousin I once had a crush on.
Excavations from an old journal (#1)
Read morePaging through an old journal, I found this….
