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My knees
Read moreTwo knee replacements coming, and I can barely walk fifty yards to the bike share without crying.
Paean
Read moreBiking through lower Manhattan, surrounded by beautiful women, wanting all of it and knowing better.
Paean
Read moreI can’t find a trace of sex in how she dresses – and that itself has my full attention.
Paean
Read moreKelly green bike shorts, a high braid, and suddenly I’m riding faster than I meant to.
Prelude to a long forgotten post about maxie
Read moreMaxie and I had an arrangement that was to end in a blowjob. Then she ghosted – and I’m less hurt than baffled.
Mania or feeling alive: new relationship energy
Read moreI’m surfing new relationship energy again, and the disappointments are half the thrill.
Ai-powered lingerie browsing site
Read moreJade will wear anything I buy her, and lingerie sites are a nightmare — so I built my own.
Flirting: a night out with judd
Read moreI went out with my old friend Judd — both of us in open marriages — to a lively cocktail bar with the half-joking aim of flirting. We met a group of women at the bar, including one particularly fun blonde, and I reflected on the rarity of having a true wingman and the ongoing question of whether Sydney will call.
Sex work and childhood inauthenticity
Read moreWhen Margot bites her lip for me, I can’t tell what’s real – and I’ve been asking that question since I was a kid.
Dating tina: chemistry, submission, and running away
Read moreTina has a voice like catnip and everything else going for her – but I asked her to wear something green, and she said she was busy.
Bike lane beauty
Read moreTwo years of biking to work instead of riding the subway, and this morning I finally saw an ass worth writing about.
The ridiculousness of ai
Read moreReviewing French Fries, or, the ridiculous power of AI. Or, I’m totally obsessional.
A meditation on aging and mortality
Read moreMeeting women has changed dramatically over the last 15 years — from mass-swiping Tinder to the blog attracting partners organically — and now all avenues have dried up.
Paean
Read moreA PAWG? Not quite. But almost….
Missing v: a bittersweet reflection on lost contact
Read moreI’ve known V since 2011. We aren’t in touch, and I haz a sad.
Losing women
Read moreI struggle to accept the loss of women in my life, a pattern rooted in losing my mother repeatedly.
Two gym rats, blonde and brunette
Read moreTwo cute women, one for whom I long, one for whom I don’t.
Paean
Read moreA surfeit of style
Paean
Read moreA paean that graduates into something like a creep shot.
Paean, or, the limitations – and capabilities – of ai
Read moreAI can nail a face but not a feeling. Guess which one matters more to me.
