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• Paean – impossibility

  November 26, 2013 · 1 min read

  Two encounters with impossible beauty, and nothing to do but be haunted.

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• Collecting on ambivalence; sharing intimacy

  November 25, 2013 · 1 min read

  I didn’t run from E’s ambivalence, and she rewarded me handsomely. Now she wants the blog — but that comes at a price.

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• Two flavors of shame

  November 25, 2013 · 1 min read

  Two flavors of shame — and neither is better, neither is harder.

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• Cultural differences

  November 22, 2013 · 1 min read

  I imagined, for just a nanosecond, outing myself as non-monogamous to a table of straight professionals. The moment passed.

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• Let be be finale of seem

  November 22, 2013 · 1 min read

  Wallace Stevens — my favorite insurance executive — on concupiscent curds and horny feet.

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• Thoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)

  November 20, 2013 · 4 min read

  The getting feels better than the having — and that realization explains more about me than I’m entirely comfortable with.

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• N. likes

  November 19, 2013 · 2 min read

  A partial catalog of things I like, and a clue to my name.

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• And finally…

  November 19, 2013 · 1 min read

  The final installment of this particular fantasy — in which she finally gets the words right.

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  Memory or fantasy?
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