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• Owning your orgasms

  October 22, 2013 · 1 min read

  I want your orgasms. All of them.

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  Domination Instructions

• Update to the reading guide

  October 21, 2013 · 2 min read

  A refreshed look at what you all are reading — and what that says about you, and me.

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  Blog Writing

• Inspiration

  October 20, 2013 · 2 min read

  Two brief fictions about blindfolds, trust, and the senses we use to know one another.

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  Prompt Writing

• Stalking alison

  October 18, 2013 · 1 min read

  It took about twenty seconds to find out everything about Alison. I probably won’t use any of it.

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  Dating

• Paean

  October 18, 2013 · 1 min read

  A woman on the subway. Or in a coffee shop. Wherever she was, I saw her.

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  Paean

• Topics

  October 16, 2013 · 1 min read

  Two years in, hundreds of posts deep, and I’m nowhere near done — but I want to know what keeps you coming back.

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  Writing

• Monogamish

  October 16, 2013 · 1 min read

  Dan Savage explains monogamish-ness so much better than I can.

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  Monogamish

• The meaning of sex

  October 16, 2013 · 3 min read

  For most of us, sex is neither a sacrament nor a handshake. It’s something more interesting than either.

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  Casual sex