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Suck my cock
Read moreI don’t love the words, but I sure love the act. A meditation on the inadequacy of language.
Why i eat your pussy
Read moreI eat your pussy because I’m hungry, not because I’m generous.
On certainty
Read moreThe massage parlor offers certainty. The bar offers something better, but almost certainly not.
More on relationships
Read moreTwo principles I try to remember: it’s almost always more useful to ask what *we* did than what *you* did, and more useful to think about what *I* can change than what *you* should.
On being edited
Read moreMy grammar, you’ll have noticed, is perfect. My experience with a recent editor, not so much.
Relationship tips
Read moreForget the quizzes — if your gut says something’s wrong, it is. Here’s what I actually find useful instead.
You walk into the bar
Read moreYou’ve heard it before. But you’re wet, and you’re dressed as I asked, and you don’t see me yet.
Blurred lines
Read moreMisogynist lyrics, rape porn, Robin Thicke, and the difference between censoring desire and changing culture.