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• I’ve been wondering….

  November 30, 2013 · 2 min read

  How many of us are more than one person online, and why isn’t anyone studying this?

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  Musing
  Marriage

• Thanksgiving in the u.s.

  November 28, 2013 · 2 min read

  I’ve got a lot to be thankful for — family, material fortune, and, maybe most of all, the fact that I’ve mostly stopped being at war with myself.

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  Mortality

• Update on e

  November 27, 2013 · 1 min read

  Her ambivalence is rampant. Mine, vanquished.

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  Compliance

• I like a woman who needs my cock

  November 26, 2013 · 1 min read

  The title pretty much says it.

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  Desire

• Paean – impossibility

  November 26, 2013 · 1 min read

  Two encounters with impossible beauty, and nothing to do but be haunted.

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  Paean

• Collecting on ambivalence; sharing intimacy

  November 25, 2013 · 1 min read

  I didn’t run from E’s ambivalence, and she rewarded me handsomely. Now she wants the blog — but that comes at a price.

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• Two flavors of shame

  November 25, 2013 · 1 min read

  Two flavors of shame — and neither is better, neither is harder.

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  Musing
  Shame

• Cultural differences

  November 22, 2013 · 1 min read

  I imagined, for just a nanosecond, outing myself as non-monogamous to a table of straight professionals. The moment passed.

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  Musing
  Polyamory