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• Monogamy and rejection

  November 4, 2013 · 1 min read

  The sting of rejection is a gift I’d never get if I were monogamous. I’m not sure I’d call it a gift I *want*, but it’s one I need.

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  Marriage Rejection

• Blogs i miss

  November 3, 2013 · 3 min read

  So many sex blogs burn bright and fast, then vanish. A shout-out to the ones I loved and lost.

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• Insatiability

  November 3, 2013 · 1 min read

  I press the bar again. And again. And again.

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  Addiction Domination

• Orgasms on the subway

  November 2, 2013 · 1 min read

  I hope I’m not the only man whose commute sounds like this. (I hope I am.)

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  Orgasms Submission

• My sasha grey – lips

  November 1, 2013 · 1 min read

  Her lips defy anatomy, and my imagination.

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  Paean

• The douchebag and the teen party

  October 30, 2013 · 3 min read

  Doug Gansler’s defense of letting his son’s underage party rage on reveals something far worse than bad parenting: the “boys will be boys” logic that makes girls responsible for not getting raped and boys blameless for raping them.

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  Politics

• Apparently, i’m a sex blogging superhero

  October 30, 2013 · 2 min read

  I’ll take it — #30 out of 100 sex blogging superheroes, and one of the few on the list who’s actually, you know, a sex blogger.

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  Writing

• Apologies and sociopaths

  October 30, 2013 · 2 min read

  I keep returning to the same dry well, hoping the people least capable of empathy will somehow deliver it.

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  Musing