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Read moreTwo years in, hundreds of posts deep, and I’m nowhere near done — but I want to know what keeps you coming back.
Monogamish
Read moreDan Savage explains monogamish-ness so much better than I can.
The meaning of sex
Read moreFor most of us, sex is neither a sacrament nor a handshake. It’s something more interesting than either.
R comes for me
Read moreR sends me the sound of her coming, and then tells me, in words, exactly what she did. FUCK is this hot.
Paean, x2
Read moreTwo women on the subway, described in the only way I know how.
Johnnie walker black
Read moreA drink, a bar, a finance guy, and a brunette with bright eyes – and somehow I end up explaining my marriage to both of them.
E[lust] #51
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all under one roof.
Ambivalence
Read moreMy desire baffles me. E wants me, she doesn’t want me. My brain says run — but something deeper wants to convert her ambivalence into enthusiasm, even as I suspect I’m really just teeing myself up, again, for the crashing disappointment I secretly crave.