The risks of “monogamy”
In which I foolhardily attack other people’s monogamy. And their “monogamy.” By wondering just how many people who think themselves monogamous really are.
Read moreIn which I foolhardily attack other people’s monogamy. And their “monogamy.” By wondering just how many people who think themselves monogamous really are.
Read moreAm I a “sex addict”? Is there such a thing? Is it a meaningful term? One reader delights in calling me a sex addict. What do I have to say about it?
Read moreI have a casual attitude toward sexually transmitted infections. And, with one exception, during Bill Clinton’s first term, I’ve never had one.
Read moree[lust] is no more. With this issue, our hostess, Dangerous Lilly, is moving on. She’s an incredible citizen of the[…]
Read moreIn that way we sometimes do, we sometimes have to, just given the realities of life, we had prenegotiated what[…]
Read moreI have had a lot of sex with a lot of people, some of whom I’ve barely known. I get tested. And I don’t stress. Here’s how I think about the risks of sex.
Read moreThere’s a little “open relationship mini-quiz” that’s been making the internet rounds lately. It showed up here, and here. I[…]
Read moreThe night began with Mara and me and another couple. I won’t be writing about the part of the evening[…]
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