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• A bird in the bush

  November 8, 2014 · 1 min read

  My childhood calligraphy error turned out to be more truth than mistake.

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  Musing

• Rough sex, cognitive dissonance, and acting

  November 7, 2014 · 2 min read

  I’m exquisitely dominant, but roughness doesn’t come naturally — I go to great lengths to protect the women I fuck from my anger, and I want to understand why.

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  Anger BDSM Compliance Dominance Fucking Rough sex

• The rockette dances again

  November 6, 2014 · 4 min read

  I’d decided we should stop seeing one another. But then she pinged me, and before long, I was watching her bend down in leggings from a second-story window.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Erotica The Rockette

• Stopping shame in its tracks

  November 5, 2014 · 5 min read

  A twelve-year-old boy, a closet, a cousin with breasts, and the indelible shame of getting caught — plus some thoughts on what we owe the teenage boys who do creepy things.

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  Musing
  Compulsion Meme Shame Wicked Wednesday

• Muscle memory

  November 2, 2014 · 1 min read

  Descending a particular stairway at a particular subway station, I didn’t remember how I used to feel. I felt it.

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  Memory Shame

• Questions and answers

  October 29, 2014 · 1 min read

  A quiz, with correct and incorrect answers.

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  Instructions Oral sex Suck my cock

• Kids swearing – what could be better?

  October 29, 2014 · 1 min read

  Little girls in princess dresses saying “fuck” for feminism. Glenn Beck hates it, which is reason enough to love it.

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  The talk

• Writing

  October 28, 2014 · 1 min read

  I’ve been writing a lot lately — just not here.

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  Writing