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My code of conduct
Read moreIt’s challenging to establish trust and safety in online relationships. Especially, if you’re sending me pictures and movies. Here’s my code of conduct, how I propose to keep you safe.
Some promises
Read moreHow can you be confident about avoiding the possibility of avoiding revenge porn when sending me porn? I make some promises….
The sensation i’m reaching for
Read moreI want my desire for you to feel like a warm hand resting on the small of your back — persistent, unmistakable, but never heavy.
Abandonment on tinder
Read moreShe showed me everything, promised me more, and then vanished — not even a goodbye, just the silent void of a disappeared Tinder thread.
Soullessness
Read moreA man at the bottom of a stairway, looking up. I saw myself in him.
Send me pictures
Read moreI’m hungry. Show me your body — but do it right.
Sex trafficking
Read moreAn unfinished, scattered meditation on sex trafficking — what I know, what I don’t, and the joyless workplaces that aren’t limited to the sex industry.
A first date
Read moreMy presumption is that you’re a slut who’s going to do exactly as I say.