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I often seem to misunderstand
Read moreTinder is teaching me that not everyone treats interactions — virtual or otherwise — as real. I do, and it stings when that’s not reciprocated.
A question
Read moreA reader asks me to guide her toward sexual self-discovery. I offer something a little different.
Pleasing me
Read moreToo much eagerness to please me is, paradoxically, a turnoff. I have some theories about why.
Tinder
Read moreTinder has suspended me again, mid-conversation with a handful of matches, and I hate being the guy who just disappears.
A tinder message i enjoyed
Read moreA woman on Tinder appreciates my… specificity.
Fucking coffee attitude – a rant
Read morePretentious hipster baristas, glass cappuccinos, and the attitude that comes with them.
I won’t be this shy forever
Read moreIsabel promised she wouldn’t be this shy forever, but her shyness was pretty fucking hot while it lasted.
Los bibilicos
Read moreA Ladino love song, a massage parlor in Soho, and the particular eroticism of a woman in green camouflage pants.