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• Respect

  January 2, 2015 · 7 min read

  What I mean by “respect” is not a universally agreed-upon set of norms. Here’s what I mean.

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• Happn

  January 1, 2015 · 1 min read

  A new dating app that’s sort of like Tinder, but creepier. Christine is less than 500 meters away.

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• New year’s resolutions

  January 1, 2015 · 2 min read

  Presence, generosity, fiction, and fucking: my resolutions for 2015.

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• How i consume your porn

  December 31, 2014 · 3 min read

  The thrill isn’t in the image — it’s in the compliance. A catalog of the personalized porn women send me, and how I actually consume it.

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• Blowjobs and teeth

  December 31, 2014 · 1 min read

  A brief but firm public service announcement.

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• Stepping out of your comfort zone

  December 30, 2014 · 2 min read

  Live-blogging a woman making herself come while I listen.

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• The women of snapchat: emily

  December 30, 2014 · 3 min read

  Emily sends me self-destructing nudes on Snapchat to protect herself, but won’t send the clothed photos I actually want by e-mail.

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• Top ten of all time

  December 29, 2014 · 2 min read

  Three years in, and the posts that rise to the top tell you pretty much everything you need to know about me.

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