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Guys being douchebags
Read morePlayboy: possibly evil, but occasionally funny, smart, and good.
Rough sex and aggression
Read moreMy desire is many things, but one thing it is is fragile.
Paean
Read moreA woman I can’t stop watching, even when I should.
A bird in the bush
Read moreMy childhood calligraphy error turned out to be more truth than mistake.
Rough sex, cognitive dissonance, and acting
Read moreI’m exquisitely dominant, but roughness doesn’t come naturally — I go to great lengths to protect the women I fuck from my anger, and I want to understand why.
The rockette dances again
Read moreI’d decided we should stop seeing one another. But then she pinged me, and before long, I was watching her bend down in leggings from a second-story window.
Stopping shame in its tracks
Read moreA twelve-year-old boy, a closet, a cousin with breasts, and the indelible shame of getting caught — plus some thoughts on what we owe the teenage boys who do creepy things.
Muscle memory
Read moreDescending a particular stairway at a particular subway station, I didn’t remember how I used to feel. I felt it.