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Displacement and disruption: a summer without home
Read moreAfter being forced to vacate our home due to required code upgrades, T and I have been living in a series of temporary spaces, financially and emotionally drained by a renovation we never wanted.
Thin flat sandals are sexy (and i’m no foot fetishist)
Read moreI like flat sandals.
Ghosts
Read moreI hate being ghosted. It shakes my sense of connection, judgment, and even cosmology.
Free speech
Read moreI’m scared
The cost of taking care
Read moreDespite transforming my relationship to food and fitness over decades, maintaining my body now feels like an exhausting and resented obsession.
Charlie kirk, and things i believe
Read moreA catalog of loathsome humans, some thoughts on political violence, and the things that scare me most right now.
Trump’s note to epstein
Read moreThe focus should be on why Trump sent a note to Epstein and the meaning of ‘enigmas’ in it, rather than its authenticity.
Saya’s power and our shared fantasies
Read moreSaya enjoys wielding her power over straight men, and we explored a fantasy in which two men physically fight for her affection.
