Asking for sex
I should stay away from women who think of sex as something for which men ask. That’s not, at all, how I think of it. But I didn’t, and it didn’t end well.
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James Deen, redux
James Deen’s initial response to Stoya’s rape accusation wasn’t perfect, but it was a good start. Or at least, it might have been….
Read moreOne more thought on James Deen
It’s time for porn sites to start thinking about removing James Deen content.
Read moreJames Deen, rapist?
I really want to believe both Stoya and James Deen. Is that possible?
Read moreStoya/James Deen
Stoya says James Deen raped her. Ugh!
Read moreChryssie Hynde on rape
Chryssie Hynde (whose music I love) has set off a bit of a kerfuffle by suggesting that, sometimes, women are[…]
Read moreGuys being douchebags
I was raised to believe that Playboy oppressed women, objectified women, created unrealistic expectations on the part of men, and[…]
Read moreJames Deen has me thinking
When I wrote this, the biggest sin we knew Deen to be guilty of was overabundance. It still reads well, as long as you know that times have changed my view.
Read moreChanging rape culture
The other day, I posted a radical idea for one way of making just a small dent in our rape[…]
Read moreRape prevention
There’s an app (Lulu – more on them in a moment) designed to help women rate potential boyfriends/dates. And people[…]
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