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• Two dimensions of peril

  October 15, 2014 · 4 min read

  Sofia’s right: I really am difficult. The two dangers of being desired — having instead of getting, and being wanted in the wrong amount.

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  Musing
  Addiction Anger Compulsion Desire Getting and having My mother Narcissism Sofia Validation

• Last hurrah?

  October 14, 2014 · 5 min read

  Swanky bar, arctic char, Scotch, self-satisfied finance bros, and Rose — who’s moving away, and whose cock-sucking I intend to savor.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Erotica Fucking Oral sex Rose

• Quick plug for an interesting project

  October 13, 2014 · 1 min read

  A reader points me to an interesting project: women talking about, and demonstrating, how they get off — educational, not pornographic, though the line is, as always, blurry.

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  Masturbation The talk

• Writing by a sex worker

  October 12, 2014 · 1 min read

  A sex worker writes about her experience, and it reads like the flip side of mine.

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  Criticism
  Commercial sex

• Met a hot former basketball player at a swanky bar

  October 10, 2014 · 1 min read

  That’s all.

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• Massage

  October 8, 2014 · 1 min read

  I’ve had more massages than most humans – and more “massages,” too. The other day, I found myself wondering why a full-body massage leaves out the most interesting inches.

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• I’m hungry

  October 5, 2014 · 1 min read

  I want.

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  Horniness

• Objectification – questions, not answers

  October 3, 2014 · 4 min read

  I have more questions than answers about objectification, but I think the questions themselves are worth sitting with.

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  Objectification Parenting The talk