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• A question

  December 14, 2014 · 1 min read

  A reader asks me to guide her toward sexual self-discovery. I offer something a little different.

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  Advice

• Pleasing me

  December 14, 2014 · 2 min read

  Too much eagerness to please me is, paradoxically, a turnoff. I have some theories about why.

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  Musing
  Abandonment Compliance Desire Safety

• Tinder

  December 11, 2014 · 1 min read

  Tinder has suspended me again, mid-conversation with a handful of matches, and I hate being the guy who just disappears.

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  Dating Tinder

• A tinder message i enjoyed

  December 9, 2014 · 1 min read

  A woman on Tinder appreciates my… specificity.

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  My cock Tinder Writing

• Fucking coffee attitude – a rant

  December 9, 2014 · 6 min read

  Pretentious hipster baristas, glass cappuccinos, and the attitude that comes with them.

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  Criticism
  Whining

• I won’t be this shy forever

  December 8, 2014 · 4 min read

  Isabel promised she wouldn’t be this shy forever, but her shyness was pretty fucking hot while it lasted.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Erotica Isabel

• Los bibilicos

  December 8, 2014 · 3 min read

  A Ladino love song, a massage parlor in Soho, and the particular eroticism of a woman in green camouflage pants.

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  Lingerie

• Hello sexy bartender

  December 6, 2014 · 1 min read

  Sometimes three words are all you need.

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