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  What does being “dominant” mean to you?

  January 6, 2015 · 2 min read

  What is the definition of “dominant”? Well, I don’t really give a fuck. The salient question is, “What does my dominance look like?”

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• Two soft cotton dresses

  January 5, 2015 · 1 min read

  Two women in cotton dresses, standing against a wall, waiting for me.

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• The edifice of monogamy

  January 3, 2015 · 5 min read

  Monogamy is ascendant as a sacred cow, and the fact of rampant infidelity is taken as evidence not of a problem with how we think about fidelity, but of widespread depravity.

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• Respect

  January 2, 2015 · 7 min read

  What I mean by “respect” is not a universally agreed-upon set of norms. Here’s what I mean.

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• Happn

  January 1, 2015 · 1 min read

  A new dating app that’s sort of like Tinder, but creepier. Christine is less than 500 meters away.

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• New year’s resolutions

  January 1, 2015 · 2 min read

  Presence, generosity, fiction, and fucking: my resolutions for 2015.

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• How i consume your porn

  December 31, 2014 · 3 min read

  The thrill isn’t in the image — it’s in the compliance. A catalog of the personalized porn women send me, and how I actually consume it.

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• Blowjobs and teeth

  December 31, 2014 · 1 min read

  A brief but firm public service announcement.

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