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• Discomfort

  January 23, 2015 · 4 min read

  The ethics of openness, secrecy, and desire — and the icky feeling when someone else gets what you can’t have, precisely because they’re willing to be dishonest about it.

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• Paean

  January 23, 2015 · 1 min read

  A woman on the subway, observed with the care usually reserved for undressing.

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• Sofia’s back

  January 22, 2015 · 1 min read

  I’m not sure it’s all for good reasons, but who am I to look a gift pussy in the mouth.

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• Search terms

  January 21, 2015 · 1 min read

  Apparently I’m the internet’s leading authority on Hasidic porn. This has consequences.

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• Precum

  January 21, 2015 · 1 min read

  Withdrawal is a suprisingly effective method of birth control. In spite of precum.

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• Withdrawal

  January 20, 2015 · 2 min read

  Did you think withdrawal was an ineffective method of birth control? Would you believe it’s about as effective as condoms?

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• She doesn’t know me

  January 19, 2015 · 1 min read

  She doesn’t know me, but she nails me in three minutes flat — and then I ruin it.

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• The lure of ambivalence

  January 19, 2015 · 2 min read

  She brought a bag with a girl scout uniform and several outfits, then declined to suck my cock while complimenting my eye contact. There’s not much I find more compelling than a woman who *might* want to go to bed with me, and that’s some toxic shit.

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