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• If you want my attention

  January 17, 2015 · 1 min read

  The virtuous circle of attention and desire.

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  Musing
  Compliance

• More on charlie hebdo

  January 16, 2015 · 1 min read

  Some further thoughts, courtesy of friends and the press.

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  Comedy Politics

• New colors

  January 15, 2015 · 1 min read

  I caved to the whiners and changed my colors. Tell me what you think.

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  Blog

• Eye contact

  January 15, 2015 · 1 min read

  Green eyes with flecks of orange, and what happens when you look away.

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  Musing
  Submission

• Je ne suis pas charlie

  January 13, 2015 · 4 min read

  I don’t think people deserve to be killed for what they say. But I think people have a responsibility when they open their mouths, or pick up their pens.

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  Criticism
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• “no ma’am”

  January 8, 2015 · 2 min read

  In which I am schooled by two very sexy baristas.

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  Musing
  Flirting

• “what movies turn you on?”

  January 8, 2015 · 1 min read

  Two scenes from 1986 that shaped my sexuality — and that I didn’t really let myself understand for another twenty-five years.

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  Criticism
  Movies Questions

• Pay attention to me

  January 7, 2015 · 1 min read

  The happy circle of attention and compliance, and the women who break it.

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