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• It’s complicated with iris

  November 26, 2017 · 1 min read

  Obstacles make attraction and arousal complicated. And enhance them.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Iris Obstacles

• Anger and sadness

  November 24, 2017 · 4 min read

  I feel anger. Which means I’m avoiding my sadness and my fear.

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  Musing
  Anger Emotions Fear Feelings Sadness

• Happy thanksgiving

  November 23, 2017 · 1 min read

  The most important moments to be grateful are the hardest ones. This year, I managed.

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  Musing
  Gratitude Thanksgiving

• Overwhelm

  November 21, 2017 · 1 min read

  I can’t breathe.

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  Musing
  Anxiety

• Paean

  November 11, 2017 · 1 min read

  I’m not interested.

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  Post
  Paean

• Objectify – a little bit of harvey weinstein in me

  November 9, 2017 · 5 min read

  Some friends and I have dinner, and objectify the waitress. In a way I’m embarrassed to say I’ve done forever. I see just a little Harvey Weinstein in myself.

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  Musing
  Friends Harvey Weinstein Misogyny Objectification

• A new plaything

  November 7, 2017 · 1 min read

  A new plaything?

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Iris

• Tamora’s desire

  November 5, 2017 · 1 min read

  Tamora and I would seem to have complimentary desires.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Tamora