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  N gets a sadistic domme

  June 9, 2020 · 7 min read

  Sadomasochism is a funny thing. Here’s how I mean it: when two people enter into a pact that produces mutual suffering.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Dominance Marina Submission

• The world

  June 9, 2020 · 1 min read

  It’s a tough time to write a sex blog.

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  Musing
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• Helter skelter

  June 9, 2020 · 3 min read

  Rollercoasters and relationships.

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  Musing
  Anticipation Fear

• Paean

  June 8, 2020 · 1 min read

  An unbidden selfie….

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Paean

• Sleepless sundays

  June 8, 2020 · 4 min read

  Sometimes I struggle to sleep….

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• Privilege, shame, and brutality

  June 6, 2020 · 3 min read

  I can breathe.

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  Mortality Narcissism Politics

• Strength and safety, dominance and terror

  June 3, 2020 · 1 min read

  The addictive elixir of submission.

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  Dominance Fear Submission
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  Edges: where the action happens

  June 1, 2020 · 2 min read

  Why clothing is sexier than nudity; why lace is hotter than cotton; why fishnets appeal….

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  Bratty subs Compliance Desire Dominance Lingerie Marina Submission