Who’s brutal?
Maybe Marina isn’t so brutal and sadistic after all…. Maybe I am the brutal, sadistic one.
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Generosity and compliance
Can you give me more than I ask for?
Read moreHow do I know I exist?
I sometimes forget that I am alive. Or rather, not so much alive as “extant.”
Read moreGratitude and resolutions
Sometimes I’m hot. Sometimes I’m not.
Read moreAttachment styles
In which I propose an alternate conceptualization of the wildly popular notion of “attachment styles.”
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N gets a sadistic domme
Sadomasochism is a funny thing. Here’s how I mean it: when two people enter into a pact that produces mutual suffering.
Read moreHelter Skelter
Rollercoasters and relationships.
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