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• Program note

  June 5, 2013 · 1 min read

  Slowing down here so I can write elsewhere. The blog will still be here. So will I.

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  Writing

• Gossip

  June 5, 2013 · 2 min read

  Gossip made me feel icky. I wish I could say that’s because I’m above it.

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  Gossip Insecurity Loneliness

• No comment

  June 4, 2013 · 1 min read
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• Self-destruction

  June 4, 2013 · 3 min read

  She stood me up two nights in a row, and two nights in a row, I let her. This isn’t a complaint about her — it’s an observation about me.

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  Distant buddies H Meme Rejection YeahWrite

• Free porn (for me)

  June 4, 2013 · 1 min read

  Help me get free porn. You’ll thank me later.

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  Masturbation Porn
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  Male family brutality

  June 3, 2013 · 3 min read

  Why “domestic violence” is the wrong way to talk about male family brutality — and compassion may be the only weapon worth using.

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  Domestic violence Masculinity

• Sandbox app

  June 3, 2013 · 1 min read

  I want to hand my kid my phone without him stumbling on my OKCupid app, my sexts, or my selfies. Is that so much to ask?

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  Parenting Privacy

• Rethinking addiction

  June 2, 2013 · 4 min read

  My thinking about sex addiction is evolving — the neuroscience is more interesting, and the sex addiction industrial complex more bankrupt, than I previously understood.

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  12 Steps Addiction Sex addiction