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• I never

  July 29, 2013 · 1 min read

  A lascivious game of “I never,” played while a woman comes for me in Starbucks.

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• Carlos danger

  July 27, 2013 · 4 min read

  Politics, sex, sexting, and the question of just how fond of one’s penis is too fond.

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• On narcissism

  July 25, 2013 · 1 min read

  A loyal reader’s compliment sends me down a predictable rabbit hole: am I endlessly self-reflective, or just endlessly self-absorbed?

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• Enthusiastic new readers

  July 23, 2013 · 1 min read

  Nothing like watching my stats climb while I’m busy doing anything but writing.

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• Enjoying myself

  July 20, 2013 · 4 min read

  Sex is my breath: endlessly complex, always with me, and not really about enjoyment.

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• Far from home

  July 19, 2013 · 1 min read

  Five days left on vacation, no charger, spotty internet, and I don’t really mind.

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• Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #5 – moaning

  July 19, 2013 · 3 min read

  The best moans are the ones you’re trying to suppress.

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• Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – blowjobs

  July 18, 2013 · 1 min read

  Porn gets blowjobs wrong, and I have opinions about how.

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