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(sex) addiction
Read moreA running index of my thoughts on whether sex addiction is real, and whether I have it.
Repetition compulsion
Read moreWe repeat traumas because we want to. Freud taught me that, and my analyst helped me see it, and I’m still not done with it.
Oban single malt scotch whisky distiller’s edition double matured
Read moreI’m no whisky snob, but I know what I like to drink.
How i wait
Read moreI like looking at people, and Penn Station gives me a way to do it blatantly, unapologetically.
Should we speak?
Read moreYour mouth has one purpose. It’s not speaking.
Paeans and want, or, life in the big city
Read moreA pretty woman on the stairs, a tingle in my cock, and the long road from wanting more to wanting enough.
On the swingset
Read moreNeighborhood swinging, birthday party gossip, and the rules of the club — explained over grilled chicken, with a two-year-old on someone’s knee.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the street stops me in my tracks.