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Male family brutality
Read moreWhy “domestic violence” is the wrong way to talk about male family brutality — and compassion may be the only weapon worth using.
Sandbox app
Read moreI want to hand my kid my phone without him stumbling on my OKCupid app, my sexts, or my selfies. Is that so much to ask?
Rethinking addiction
Read moreMy thinking about sex addiction is evolving — the neuroscience is more interesting, and the sex addiction industrial complex more bankrupt, than I previously understood.
(sex) addiction
Read moreA running index of my thoughts on whether sex addiction is real, and whether I have it.
Repetition compulsion
Read moreWe repeat traumas because we want to. Freud taught me that, and my analyst helped me see it, and I’m still not done with it.
Oban single malt scotch whisky distiller’s edition double matured
Read moreI’m no whisky snob, but I know what I like to drink.
How i wait
Read moreI like looking at people, and Penn Station gives me a way to do it blatantly, unapologetically.
Should we speak?
Read moreYour mouth has one purpose. It’s not speaking.
