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Loneliness and rejection
Read moreI tossed off a quick answer about loneliness, then spent the next few hours realizing I was wrong about myself — and tracing the line from rejection to shame to paying for the very rejection I was trying to escape.
Superiority
Read moreNavigating the minefield of CraigsList couples, where clarifying your sexual preferences can earn you a lecture on hetero-normativity from a former burlesque dancer.
Dom blogs and me
Read moreI’m dominant, sure — but I can’t write about it without also writing about my doubts, my moods, my humanness, and I know that’s not always what you came here for.
If–
Read moreKipling’s “If—” — a poem I needed to be reminded of just now.
Sexy time? not yet.
Read moreThe blog’s been heavy on navel-gazing and light on fucking lately. There are reasons. I’m working on it.
Writing assignment 1: smoking
Read moreThe anatomy of craving a cigarette — mental, bodily, and the tricks my brain plays to get me to succumb.
Paean – contrasts
Read moreA woman on the subway, covered from chin to ankle, and the Aerie bag in her lap.
Smoking
Read moreApparently, I can’t resist a half-pack of cigarettes left lying around.
