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Love is that which we know
Read moreRyan and Toby hate each other, but love is never really about how things look from the outside.
Sex scarcity
Read moreA man’s inarticulate defense of rape led me to a more honest reckoning with the frustration of sex scarcity — one that justifies nothing, but that nearly every straight man has felt.
Skirts: a hypothesis
Read moreThe hemline as mind-reader: what that inch or two above the knee tells me about how she saw herself when she got dressed.
Sketchy
Read moreShe was trying to be less sketchy. I was trying to be less sketchy. We met on SeekingArrangement.
Sofia’s way – note from a distant buddy
Read moreSofia describes, in her own words, how she went from blog reader to distant buddy — and what, exactly, she wanted from me all along.
The first time
Read moreRoom 909. A hotel room, a command, a wait that I can’t sustain, and a first time that leaves marks.
The etiology of shame
Read moreWhere shame comes from, and why I need it.
A quick question for subscribers by e-mail
Read moreA bit of housekeeping on the e-mail delivery front.