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• Enjoying myself

  July 20, 2013 · 4 min read

  Sex is my breath: endlessly complex, always with me, and not really about enjoyment.

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• Far from home

  July 19, 2013 · 1 min read

  Five days left on vacation, no charger, spotty internet, and I don’t really mind.

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• Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #5 – moaning

  July 19, 2013 · 3 min read

  The best moans are the ones you’re trying to suppress.

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• Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – blowjobs

  July 18, 2013 · 1 min read

  Porn gets blowjobs wrong, and I have opinions about how.

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• Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking

  July 15, 2013 · 2 min read

  Fucking isn’t the point. The sentence is more interesting than the period at the end of it.

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• Paean

  July 14, 2013 · 1 min read

  A short, curvy woman on the subway, and everything I noticed.

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• Paean

  July 13, 2013 · 1 min read

  She’s standing at the pastry case, but she’s not just evaluating pastries.

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• Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – nudity

  July 13, 2013 · 2 min read

  What excites me isn’t nudity — it’s the distance between clothed and nude, and the slow, deliberate closing of that distance.

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  Cultural sexual hegemony Nudity