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Sex scarcity
Read moreA man’s inarticulate defense of rape led me to a more honest reckoning with the frustration of sex scarcity — one that justifies nothing, but that nearly every straight man has felt.
Skirts: a hypothesis
Read moreThe hemline as mind-reader: what that inch or two above the knee tells me about how she saw herself when she got dressed.
Sketchy
Read moreShe was trying to be less sketchy. I was trying to be less sketchy. We met on SeekingArrangement.
Sofia’s way – note from a distant buddy
Read moreSofia describes, in her own words, how she went from blog reader to distant buddy — and what, exactly, she wanted from me all along.
The first time
Read moreRoom 909. A hotel room, a command, a wait that I can’t sustain, and a first time that leaves marks.
The etiology of shame
Read moreWhere shame comes from, and why I need it.
A quick question for subscribers by e-mail
Read moreA bit of housekeeping on the e-mail delivery front.
Hot gifs
Read moreA new Tumblr, devoted to the GIFs that move me.