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Bend to my will?
Read moreI don’t want to bend you to my will. I want your will to curl into mine like shrink-wrap — no distance, no submission, just utter harmony. Maybe that’s not dominance. Maybe it’s just infantile.
Smoking – part 2
Read moreThe shame of buying a pack, and the way my body betrays me by feeling better the moment I decide to do it.
Imagine
Read moreA woman on a train, and the stories I tell myself about her.
Loneliness and rejection
Read moreI tossed off a quick answer about loneliness, then spent the next few hours realizing I was wrong about myself — and tracing the line from rejection to shame to paying for the very rejection I was trying to escape.
Superiority
Read moreNavigating the minefield of CraigsList couples, where clarifying your sexual preferences can earn you a lecture on hetero-normativity from a former burlesque dancer.
Dom blogs and me
Read moreI’m dominant, sure — but I can’t write about it without also writing about my doubts, my moods, my humanness, and I know that’s not always what you came here for.
If–
Read moreKipling’s “If—” — a poem I needed to be reminded of just now.
Sexy time? not yet.
Read moreThe blog’s been heavy on navel-gazing and light on fucking lately. There are reasons. I’m working on it.
