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Anticipation
Read moreMy cock aches with wanting.
Secrets and lies
Read moreOn secrecy, privacy, parental spying, and Edward Snowden.
Lessons in commercial sex
Read moreSome hard-won lessons about lying, value, and the different games men and women play at the juncture of sex and money.
Creep shots revisited (again)
Read moreI struggle with whether creep shots are violating of women’s privacy. I decide to behave as if they are, but I remain unconvinced….
Paean
Read moreA young woman walks ahead of me, and I am grateful for every step.
Fantasy deconstructed, take 3
Read moreWhat these women want isn’t me — it’s what I want.
Paean – not mine
Read moreA friend’s contribution: an ode to a woman on a bus, written with the precision of someone who notices everything and says nothing.
Sex and power (“house of cards”)
Read moreEverything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.