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• Anticipation

  August 4, 2013 · 1 min read

  My cock aches with wanting.

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  Anticipation Erotica

• Secrets and lies

  August 2, 2013 · 2 min read

  On secrecy, privacy, parental spying, and Edward Snowden.

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  Politics Secrets Shame

• Lessons in commercial sex

  August 1, 2013 · 8 min read

  Some hard-won lessons about lying, value, and the different games men and women play at the juncture of sex and money.

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  Advice Commercial sex SeekingArrangement
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  Creep shots revisited (again)

  August 1, 2013 · 2 min read

  I struggle with whether creep shots are violating of women’s privacy. I decide to behave as if they are, but I remain unconvinced….

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  Aggression Creep shots Creepy Shame

• Paean

  August 1, 2013 · 1 min read

  A young woman walks ahead of me, and I am grateful for every step.

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  Paean

• Fantasy deconstructed, take 3

  August 1, 2013 · 1 min read

  What these women want isn’t me — it’s what I want.

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• Paean – not mine

  July 31, 2013 · 1 min read

  A friend’s contribution: an ode to a woman on a bus, written with the precision of someone who notices everything and says nothing.

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• Sex and power (“house of cards”)

  July 31, 2013 · 1 min read

  Everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.

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  House of Cards